Assalamu Alaykum,

We are looking forward to welcoming you to the Mawaddah Meet-Up. Your place at this event has been confirmed, and this pack contains all the essential details you need to ensure the afternoon runs smoothly and comfortably. In collaboration with MCWAS, Purley Masjid, and Al-Emaan Centre, we have designed a structured, calm, and faith-centered environment focused on meaningful introductions and good character.

🕒 Event Schedule and Arrival

Please arrive on time by 1:30 PM on Sat 27 June 2026 to be admitted. To preserve the flow of the pre-matched sessions and show respect to all participants, we must stick strictly to this timeline:

You must bring a valid photo ID showing your full name and date of birth. This will be checked at registration to verify your identity before entry.

⚙️ How the Meetings Work

To maintain a calm and dignified atmosphere, we use a structured rotation system:

  • Sisters will be allocated to fixed, numbered tables for the afternoon.

  • Separated waiting areas will be provided for both brothers and sisters, as well as their accompanying mahrams (if present), to ensure absolute privacy and comfort between rotations.

  • Brothers will remain in their designated waiting area between rounds.

  • A volunteer holding the master schedule will direct each brother to his next scheduled table.

  • At the end of each round, brothers will return to the waiting area until directed to their next meeting. Please use this opportunity to update your Interest Sheet.

💭 Conversational Etiquette and Topic Guide

Because each initial introduction is structured and limited to a maximum of 20 minutes, focusing on intentional, purposeful conversation will help you make the most of your time. Keep in mind that there are no right or wrong answers; rather, it is dependent upon what you believe is best for you. Use the other person's responses to determine if you are mutually aligned and willing to explore a deeper, lifelong relationship after the event.

Etiquette Checklist

  • Balance the Conversation: Ensure both you and the person you are meeting have an equal opportunity to speak and ask questions.

  • Focus on Core Compatibility: Use this brief window to explore shared values, lifestyle expectations, and faith baselines, rather than superficial small talk.

  • Keep it Respectful: Maintain a polite, warm, and professional tone. Avoid digging into highly sensitive personal history during a first 20-minute meeting.

Curated Questions for Your Initial 20-Minute Meeting

If you are unsure where to start, choose a few targeted questions from the foundational categories below to open your discussion:

1. The "Start-Up" Baseline

  • Why are you seeking to get married at this stage in your life?

  • Which words would you use to describe your overall personality and character?

  • Name two or three of your top positive qualities and any areas you are actively trying to improve.

  • What is something that you are truly passionate about, and why does it mean so much to you?

2. Faith and Modesty

  • What role does religion play in your daily life, and what are you looking for in a spouse regarding their practice?

  • Which acts of worship need to be done for you to feel like you had a good day?

  • How would you define what modesty means to you, and what are your expectations of a spouse regarding this?

3. Life Direction and Goals

  • What are your most important, pressing goals and ambitions in life right now?

  • Where do you see yourself five to ten years from now?

  • Are you spontaneous in your decision-making, or are you someone who thoroughly thinks things through before deciding?

4. Expectations of Marriage

  • What are your primary expectations of married life and a happy household?

  • What do you believe the primary role of a husband is? What do you believe the primary role of a wife is?

  • To what extent do you expect your spouse to consult with you on day-to-day and major decisions?

Note: If you find that you closely align on these initial questions, you can note your interest down on your Interest Sheet. Our team will facilitate matching afterwards so you can proceed to deeper topics (such as finances, family dynamics, and detailed future plans) in an appropriate setting.

🕌 Venue Etiquette and Dress Code

As this event is hosted in a masjid-linked environment, we kindly ask all guests to embody excellent Islamic adab (etiquette):

  • Dress Code: Modest, clean, and appropriate attire suitable for a mosque environment.

  • Speech: Respectful, polite, and intentional conversation at all times.

  • Intention: A gentle reminder that this is a sincere space created for the purpose of marriage. Please help us preserve a respectful and honorable atmosphere.

🌸 For Sisters and Mahrams

We want all sisters to feel completely safe, supported, and at ease:

  • Mahram Attendance: Your Mahram (male or female family member) is warmly welcome to attend.

  • Dedicated Seating: Comfortable waiting areas are provided for family members.

  • Table Accompaniment: If you prefer, your Mahram is welcome to sit with you at your discussion table during your meetings.

  • Chaperones: If a Mahram was unable to accompany you, please let our team know before the event starts so we can assign an on-site volunteer to act as your chaperone.

🔒 Respect, Privacy and Confidentiality

To protect everyone's privacy and dignity, we enforce a strict confidentiality policy:

  • No Direct Exchange of Details: Personal contact details (phone numbers, social media handles, or emails) must not be exchanged directly between attendees during the event.

  • Interest Sheets: At the end of the final meeting, you will finalise and hand in your Interest Sheet directly to the organising team. These sheets are completely confidential.

  • Facilitated Matches: Where mutual interest is identified by our team after the event, we will contact you and facilitate introductions in a respectful, appropriate way.

  • Media Policy: We may have designated volunteers capturing media (photos/videos) during the event for organisational or future promotional use. To fully respect your privacy, no individual will be named or identifiable in any material.

☕ Facilities

  • Refreshments: Light refreshments will be provided during the afternoon.

  • Prayer Space: Dedicated prayer facilities are available on-site, and time is built into the schedule for congregational Zuhr prayer.

🤍 A Gentle Reminder

This gathering is built around the beautiful intention of seeking a righteous spouse and pleasing Allah. We encourage everyone to come with an open heart, good expectations, and gentle manners. When intention is pure and conduct is kind, Allah places barakah in the process.

A Note on Due Diligence: While the organising team carries out reasonable safeguarding and identity checks, attendees are strongly encouraged to exercise their own thorough due diligence throughout the subsequent matching process.

Our team will be visible and present throughout the evening to guide, support, and ensure you have a comfortable and respected experience. We look forward to welcoming you.

Further Your Journey: Upcoming Workshop

To get the absolute most out of this process and build a strong foundation for your future, you may also benefit from the Seeking Your Soulmate workshop we are holding on the following day, Sunday 28th June.

This session dives much deeper into successful marital foundations, practical compatibility checks, and navigating the marriage process with clarity.

👉 Please sign up to secure your place here: https://themff.co.uk/collections/live-workshops/products/workshop-seeking-your-soulmate-sutton-london